Amazing video. A “must see” for anyone struggling with depression and anyone who loves someone who struggles with it. In other words, all of us.
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged bipolar disorder, civilization, depression, disease, happiness, health, mental health, mental illness, psychiatry, psychology, sociology on March 30, 2014| 2 Comments »
Amazing video. A “must see” for anyone struggling with depression and anyone who loves someone who struggles with it. In other words, all of us.
Posted in Uncategorized on March 29, 2014| Leave a Comment »
I am thankful for such a loving and patient husband. I am thankful that he has taken the time to read a “safe space visualization” exercise to me out of my DBT book that, unexpectedly, moved me to experience feelings I have been pushing away and afraid to come to terms with. This safe space is all my own and not something I want to share except for with those I trust, but it represents a place from my past. A place that I find myself saying “I will miss” when, in reality, I have been missing it a long time. A place that I have so many memories of I cannot keep them straight and they all blend together. A place where my love of the outdoors originated. A place that I am afraid to experience in my memories and to experience as a “safe place” because of the hurt that comes along with it, the baggage, the knowing that this is a place that in the physical sense is no longer a place I can return and experience in that way anymore. For years I haven’t been able to. And I’m thankful for my husband’s wisdom to tell me that my memories are my own and no one can take those from me. What a revelation that is…so obvious, simple, and true, and yet, it has been so hard to realize this without him saying it first. But he’s right. I can experience those memories, and no one can take those away, though the physical location has been taken (or at least, my ability to be there). The memories remain, the place itself remains, and it’s okay to remember and process this, to miss it, to experience it, and to remember all of the good, the bad, the painful, everything. It’s okay to remember it for what it was and what it still is. And it’s okay to feel pain, but it’s also okay to think of it as a place of growing. It’s okay to think of it as a place of change. It’s okay. It’s all okay, or at least it will be someday. After all, everything about this place made me who I am. I am thankful to be able to reflect on this. I am thankful for the pain I feel now because, in a strange way, it brings me peace. I’m moving closer to accepting a reality I cannot change. I am thankful for a loving, patient, and insightful husband. I am thankful for my dad and his wisdom in this situation. I am thankful that I have this moment and the safe space I am in now to reflect on all of this. I am thankful that we are (and have been) running short on money. Wasteful as it sounds, we used to go out more on weekend nights like this and be someplace, anywhere but here, but home. I couldn’t stand the walls, the quiet, the sobriety. I wanted to be somewhere else, and preferably drinking so that I didn’t feel all of the anxiety that continues to build day after day, week after week, year after year. I’m tired of running from it. Circumstances, and quite honestly wanting to be healthier in many ways, has brought me right here to this moment. I am so thankful for this home, for my family, and for this moment. I am thankful for this safe space, and for my memories of the “safe space” I return to in my mind when I need to feel at peace, a place that will always be a part of me no matter what happens in the physical world. No one can take away what I hold in my mind and in my heart.
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged lessons, life, life lessons, mental health, self care on March 19, 2014| Leave a Comment »
In no particular order, I felt like sharing some “life lessons” I have learned. Some are more recent, some in the past. Learn from my experiences, share your own if you like.